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About me

Hi, I’m Rena — born and raised in Shanghai, now living in Winnipeg, Canada with my family.

Before moving abroad, I worked in China as a Sexual-education Senior Lecturer, Sexual-psychology Counselor,Sexual-psychology Therapist and Family relationship counselor, also I am a certified P.E.T. (Parent Effectiveness Training) instructor.

My work focused on strengthening emotional connection between parent-child and intimate relationships —— helping families build closer, more compassionate relationships.

Now, I write mostly in Chinese — reflecting on life across cultures, parenting, marriage, faith, and the quiet beauty of ordinary days. In time, I hope to share more of my thoughts in English as well.

Thanks for being here. Feel free to leave a message — I’d love to hear from you.

Savoring the slow & simple life
in Winnipeg

Life moves slowly here, giving space for reflection, creativity, and connection. The seasons are bold, the sunsets generous, and the community quietly kind.

A few things I’m great at

Writing with heart,
consistency, and depth.

From everyday life to cross-cultural reflections, I write to record, express, and connect — always quietly exploring the enduring power of language. Writing is my gentle dialogue with the world, and also the way I re-root myself in a new and unfamiliar environment.

Sexual-psychology
relationship counseling.

I’m devoted to walking alongside those I work with, helping them recognize their inner needs and rebuild connection and boundaries through understanding. Across cultures, the healing and growth of intimate relationships has always been a calling close to my heart.

Teaching communication skills rooted in empathy.

Whether it’s between parents and children or partners, I love sharing tools that help people move closer, break through misunderstandings, and rebuild trust. These principles also helped me navigate and grow through both cross-cultural life and my own journey of faith.

Explore my blog

Stories of life, faith, parenting, and culture — written with honesty and heart. I hope these words offer a moment of reflection, warmth, or simply companionship.

Deep Thinking

论一个人的主体性

但其实我更想和大家探讨的是:尤其是对于当今社会的女性朋友而言,怎样才能成为一个“拥有主体性”的人?以及如果先天主体性不足,那么如何通过刻意训练获得主体性?

FaithWork

米爸的加拿大求职记(二)

我捂着嘴巴瞪大眼睛大概静止了三秒钟后,激动得跑过去疯狂摇晃米爸追问:怎么会这样?!他怎么会去我们小组聚会啊?!快说!

Faith

没有任何指望的时候,因信仍有指望。

3月7日星期五的下午,我去一个机构办事儿,碰巧遇到了一个熟识的弟兄,我看他似乎有点闷闷不乐,就随口问了一句:怎么感觉你今天有点不开心呀?

Work

米爸的加拿大求职记(一)

米爸从两周前开始进入了求职状态,但由于临近考试,需要投入大量的时间在备考上,似乎没有多余的精力花在整理简历、搜索工作、申请职位以及和雇主交流上。